DIARY ZARA

DIARY ZARA
42. Good relationship between Father and Son


"Jarel what else? " There's an incoming message in whats app from Ditto.


"Aa nih dad there send a message Whats app, want to be in bales ga? " Zara gave a cell phone to my son Jarel.


"Again. " Jarel recorded a Voice note.


"Have you taken a shower yet? " Task Ditto.


"Yes want to try typing yes, I can. " Jarel wants to try to answer the message not to use the voice Note.


"Can. "Zara Jawab.


"Yet. " Write Jarel in the message, even though he took a long time to type her. ha. ha. ga whatever the name is also learned.


"Ih stinks... " Ditto recorded his Voice note.


"anytime soon. " Reply Jarel.


"Dear baby, I'm back to work. Drug." Ditto replied to jarel's message.


"Yes. " Jarel re-typed a reply message.


"Pinter can read. " Answer Ditto.


"Dad. " Answer Jarel.


Who used to teach, when it was actually the responsibility of teaching children about education was a father, but that obligation now moved on to Zara completely.


"Dad again what? " Tanya Jarel with a smile.


"You're coming home, but it's raining. It's still in the factory. " Answer Ditto.


"Yes Dad. " Reply Jarel.


"Jarel's late in the afternoon, shower first. Can you shower yourself yet? " Task Ditto.


"Mama wants to take a bath by herself, says dad has to bathe himself. " Jarel told Zara.


"Yes, it will be big. Now get me mamah first. " Answer Zara.


"Dizziness, the father is mostly mamah, aa bales which was. AA dizziness mostly. he.. "Ask jarel to Zara.


"It's up to you to reply which one, one-on-one. " Answer Zara.


"Dizziness. " Jarel bales Ditto's message.


"Hahh... Why dizziness? Ask to be cooked water angel same mamah bath. " Answer Ditto.


"Dizziness bales, not dizzy pain Dad. It doesn't do much, jarel is difficult to tick. " Answer jarel in voice note.


"Oh.ha.ha. Excuse me. " Answer Ditto.


"That's the father of tea, say it's just one, don't do much-mamah, let aa giddy. " Jarel report to Zara.


"Yes. " Answer Zara.


"Let's take a shower first, then send another WA to Dad. " Take Zara to Jarel.


"Come on. " Jarel ran straight to the bathroom.


"Dad, I took a shower. " Jarel sent another message to Ditto.


"Great, shower yourself? " Task Ditto.


"Sama mama dimandiin. " Answer Jarel.


"Dad again what? " Ask Jarel.


"Father is still in the factory, it's raining" replied Ditto.


"Yes, it's raining here too. " Answer jarel.


"You want to send najai aa videos, to Dad can you? " Task Jarel to Zara.


Jarel also sent some of his videos, videos, school also on Ditto.


"Well, a good video, right?" Ask Jarel.


"Good, I like it. Awesome Jarel pinter boy. " Answer Ditto.


"Yeey.. "Jarel was very happy with him.


Thank God, even though my son has to go through difficult things, not all children experience things like that. But the spirit of his learning is never lost, even Jarel can prove with all his achievements, if he is lucky to be okay. Hopefully Zara can always support, and accompany every growth of Jarel, especially the emotional side that is very important, to form the character of the intelligent child is good.


Jarel posted a selfie at the store on Ditto.


"Beautiful if you take a shower. " Answer Ditto.


"Daddy's clothes are on the cake? The jacket is cold in use yes, " replied Ditto.


"Yes. " Answer Jarel.


"The spirit of Jarel, don't be naughty. Same with mom, okay. " Ditto replied to Jarel's message.


"Yes. " Answer Jarel.


Now Ditto and Jarel's relationship has improved, Alhamdulilah. If that's just what Zara allows. It is okay, because until anytime there will be no such thing as a former child, or former father. Another thing his wife and husband, may be said in the former.


If you really want to have a good relationship, please, Zara has forgiven. Just don't look for any more commotion at Zara. Zara doesn't like it.


Maybe Dad, and my mother also have not been able to forgive Ditto, because it is too hurt for everything we have been through before.


But Zara thought grown up. Zara forgives but does not forget the events that Zara has experienced, because it is very painful, and it is the lowest point in Zara's life.


To hate the taste of no, let it be. Because there are lessons Zara learned from Ditto and Zara's separation and even with Ditto's departure, opening up new opportunities for Zara to live happily in the future. Living with someone who truly values Zara, loves Zara, protects Zara, accepts Zara for who she is. God's best chosen person God will one day give Zara.


However, if now Zara and Ditto are on good terms too. That is a good thing, because if we have even one enemy it feels like life cannot be calm. Another case when we are around a good person, all of it feels good and life becomes calm.


Maybe later Zara can also communicate again with my father and mother-in-law, if the time is right. To just build a good relationship.


Not to be back with Ditto, because we have chosen our own way of life. Each has a different Vision Mission life purpose. Each has found a loved one. But Ditto's obligations as Jarel's father, may still be there, as long as he's alive.


If Ditto is still alive, and has the desire to finance Jarel's life, yes please. If not, Zara will try her best to meet Jarel's needs. Making all the fields a reward for Zara, when Zara finances Jarel, which is still the responsibility of her father, even though Zara and Ditto have separated.


"Sir, "Jarel and Zara go to school and stop by Mom's house.


"A just got home. " Ask mom.


"Yes, I have a new bag from my dad. " Jarel showed mom his new bag.


"Where did you meet yesterday, Seneng? " Task Mom on Jarel.


"Mistake. " Answer Jarel.


"Where Ditto met you yesterday, it turns out he came again. " Task Mom on Zara.


"Well, nanyain mom too. Zara told me to meet my mother, if you dare. "Zara Jawab.


"Hahhh. indeed he dared to show his idols again in front of his mother. " Answer to the still emotional mother.


"Ga know, it's mom, who then let it go. When it was time to wake up, he was not chased back. Kirain Zara is dead, she is still alive. " Answer Zara laughed.


"Yes, I'm aware of maybe. There is one more that is unconscious. " Mom said to Zara.


"Who?" Ask Zara.


"Tuh the Rangga. " Answer mother.


"Huh. huh... Rangga is dead, ma'am. " Answer Zara.


"wither away, right? " Ask Mom.


"Yes, Zara wants to go home first, Mom. Don't talk about the dead. " Zara came home from my mother's house.