Ramadan Without Sua

Ramadan Without Sua
Two Family Proposal


After Dhito revealed his heart's intentions to both of his parents. At once, Dhito also explained that his desire was just a deal. Therefore, the Dhito family also agreed.


The next day Miss Lastri spoke to Dhito first. Although it is only a deal, but the family of Mr. Hardi wants the process to be a little complete. Start with the application first. After that, will take care of administrative letters to the Office of Religious Affairs, then wait for time to submit.


"Dhito, try to make a list, whatever we will give to Ardhita and her family as a proposal" said Bu Lastri.


"What is usually ma'am?"


"That proposal yes you gave a hand to Ardhita. Usually there are jewelry, kebaya and rags, toiletries, and so on" replied Bu Lastri.


In order for Dhito to get a picture, Bu Lastri showed pictures from the internet about the session. At least so that Dhito would know.


"Well, I'm like gini. We propose and give it a hand first. Later, I will stay at KUA and give me a wedding ring," said Bu Lastri.


Dhito who is not neko-neko also agrees with his mother's advice. In addition, Dhito also does not know about it. The important and legitimate contract with Ardhita.


"Tell him to his family Ardhita. Father and Mother will visit to do the application first, while waiting for the administration to be taken care of. After all, marriage registration also takes time," Ms. Lastri replied.


According to his mother's advice, Dhito will inform Dhita's family about the arrival of his family to their home. The faster, the better. It's just, it can be fast, as long as it's not in a hurry.


A week later ....


The Hardi family was actually heading to the Ardhita residence. Accompanied by Mr. RT and one public figure only as a witness. Likewise with the Ardhita family accompanied by Mr. RT and also one close neighbor. Although inviting others, the health protocol is still applied. Those who were there, too, wore masks.


The Dhito family did not come empty-handed. A set of offerings was given to Ardhita and her family. A sign that they are not just coming, but asking the family of Pak Harja kindly to ask Ardhita to be edited by Dhito.


"Assalamualaikum, Mr. Harja and family. Straight away, our purpose here first of course to visit, then the second, we came to ask Mr. Harja and Mother to invite her daughter Ardhita to our son, Dhito," said Mr. Hardi.


"Thank you Mr. Hardi and family, we welcome and accept the goodwill of Mr. Hardi and his family. Given the long relationship Ardhita and Mas Dhito, and of course fulfill the marriage of sakinah, mawaddah, and warahmah, then we also accept this proposal," Pak Harja replied.


Mr. RT as a leader in the neighborhood and community leaders also witnessed. Now, the relationship between the two families is getting serious. The two will also become a family with the union of Ardhita and Dhito.


Not pinning the ring, but that night, the Dhito family gave Ardhita a bracelet. So, both couples heading to halal are welcome to stand. Dhito began to put a gold bracelet in Ardhita's hand.


"Bismil was bornrahmanirrahim" Dhito said when installing the bracelet.


Towards marriage, Dhito mentions the name of Allah. The goal is that a loving and merciful God will always be with you. His good intentions are heard by God.