Ramadan Without Sua
The Decision of Two Families

After Dhito agreed to postpone the marriage which would actually be held at the end of the year. Then, the next day Father and Mother Hardi intend to visit the Ardhita family. It is with a heavy heart, but this decision must be made. Therefore, now Pak Hardi, Bu Lastri, and also Dhito come to the house of Pak Harjo.

"Don't forget to wear a mask. Although it comes and will not linger, it still has to apply health protocols," Mr. Hardi told his wife and also Dhito.

"Already, Father," replied Dhito who was now wearing a batik shirt.

Indeed, Dhito chose to wear a batik shirt because it seemed polite. Especially when it comes to the home of prospective in-laws, batik is often a suitable choice at semi-official events. In addition, Dhito was also wearing a mask.

After, Dhito took out his father's car, then drove the car with the type of city car to go to Ardhita's house. Along the way, Dhito is also worried. Honestly speaking, Dhito still wanted to continue his original plan. However, what power, imposing his plan could also be fatal.

"Still in mind, Dhit?" asked Miss Lastri to her son.

"Yes, still, Mom. Sometimes good intentions can also fail with circumstances. But how else. It can usually only reverse it," Dhito replied.

Mr. Hardi, who was sitting right behind Dhito, patted his son's arm. "Yes, the patient. A little patience can keep us from danger. Its alright. Did not fail really, just postponed temporarily," replied Mr. Hardi.

Their marriage did not fail. Just postponed. Postponed until things have really improved. When, the earth has improved, Ardhita has returned to Malang, then the marriage will still be held. Not canceled.

A while driving, now they have arrived at Ardhita's house. There was Mr. Hardi who knocked on the door of the house and said wrong to the candidate of the iron.

"Assalamualaikum, Mr. Harjo," he said.

Not long after, from inside the house there were Pak Harjo and Bu Tini who opened the door. The middle-aged couple was wearing masks as well when they opened the door. In front of the house has been provided a place for hand washing and hand washing soap. That is because Ardhita reminded the Father and Mother also to maintain and implement health protocols.

Mr. Hardi and his family gave greetings not shaking hands with each other as usual. Simply close both palms and raise them parallel to the chest, and slightly lower the head. Sign respect. In the pandemic, it was not allowed to make physical contact.

"Tumben Mr. Hardi and his family come here? Let's go in, please" said Mr. Harjo who invited Pak Hardi's family to enter.

"Yes, sir...all friends and want to convey news from us," said Mr. Hardi.

"Please, Mr. Hardi ... What's wrong?" ask Mr. Harjo again.

Mr. Hardi sighed for a moment. Honestly, he felt sorry for Dhito as well. But, inevitably, this decision must be taken. Then, Mr. Hardi began to tell his true intentions and goals.

"Look, Mr. Harjo and Bu Tini. The first purpose we came here is of course to visit and secondly to inform us about the wedding plans of our children, namely Dhito and Ardhita. Considering the two have been dating for a long time, and are already engaged as well. However, when the earth is in chaos like this. Sorry, it seems that the wedding plan that should be done later this year should be postponed, sir," said Mr. Hardi.

Mr. Harjo nodded his head. To be honest, he was not surprised. Because, indeed in this covid period so much news on television where many couples choose to postpone their marriage. Implement large-scale social restrictions. All of that is done to reduce exposure to covid that every day, the number is getting higher.

Indeed, Mr. Harjo and Bu Tini have not spoken anything with Ardhira, but both of them have taken the opportunity to postpone the marriage as well. Given the number of covids that are still high and also Ardhita who is still in Ranai, Natuna.

"Actually, my wife and I have discussed it together, sir. So, we're not surprised. However, we have to tell Dhita as well. Dhita and Dhito are due to get married later this year. If my wife and I agree. Not void, just backtracked, waiting for things to get much better" replied Mr. Harjo.

Of course Mr. Hardi was relieved. Initially, Mr. Hardi also thought that it might be possible that the Ardhita family did not accept. Because, women usually have their own various considerations.

"True Mr. Harjo, not failed and canceled. Just be pushed back, waiting for better conditions and Ardhita can already return to Malang," replied Mr. Hardi.

"We don't matter, Mr. Hardi. In fact, our opinions are the same. What about Dhito?" ask Bu Tini now to Dhito.

"Actually, Dhito wanted to on the initial plan. Moreover, Dhito has returned to Malang as well, Father and Mother. It was also because Dhito was PHK in Makassar. The hotel where Dhito works is closed for an unspecified time. However, thankfully Dhito has got another job in Malang, even if only in the mini market. The important thing is to work first. Dhito is affectionate with Ardhita, but now must hold back and be more patient first" he replied.

"True Mas Dhito, have to be patient first. If forced, the results are also not good," replied Mr. Harjo.

"So, who's gonna tell Ardhita?" ask Mr. Hardi later.

"We'll tell him first, Mr. Hardi. Later, Mr. Hardi and Dhito can replace telling. Actually pity Dhita too, serving in Natuna there must also be heavy. However, it is his duty to serve the community" Pak Harjo replied.

Once everything is as close as possible, they just need to tell Ardhita. Of course you can only tell by phone. Because, if you tell directly also certainly can not.