My Dear Teacher

My Dear Teacher
Arguing


Ms. Anis was still silent, even though her son had lodged a protest. After removing all his uneg-unegnya, Damar just shut up. Before long, the sound of Bu Anis exhaling. "Hmmm, it's weird of you, Mar. Why should I protest with Nanda's matchmaking. Just because of the age difference? You do not forget, right, the marriage of your mother and father is different ages. You and your wife did too. Then what's wrong if Nanda is married to someone older than her? Maybe that's how he is. Aye, right?"


"Astagfirullah Mother. Yes different. Mother loves father when deciding to get married, as well as Damar who loves Dita, so there is no problem with the age difference. But Nanda, I don't like Babe Johan at all!" Damar. He was really annoyed with his mother who even made his marriage and his mother's marriage as an example. "In addition, if you do not love Dad, it will not be possible for you to marry your father. Aye, right? Mother also will not be hurt like today to make it as a scapegoat."


"Mar, listen, don't take your mother and father. Mother does not like! Your father is not a responsible man, unlike Babe Johan. unmarried I he has agreed to give a large dowry."


"Lho, it was Mother who originally brought her. Equating this case with the mother case. Aye, right?"


"Ughhh," Anis was upset, she was angry at her son. "You are if you say you like to fight. You know, Babeh Johan promised Nanda a big dowry. Forty million, cash. He will also make a contract for us. Isn't that tempting? When will I have all that again. Nanda no longer need unclear work like now, you also do not need to spend money on living expenses let alone preparing him for college. You can save money for Sigit and Lala's college preparation. Anyway, when else do we have a contract, right?"


"The mother is strange. Tega, just for the money of sacrificing his own son. What for Nanda's happiness is not important. Babeh Johan is more appropriate with mother, not with Nanda. Moreover, he already had two wives and quite a lot of children. Mommy sure she can be fair? Don't let him make Nanda's life suffer more. Poor thing, Bun, same kid himself. Never mind. Listen to Damar, don't go on. Or Damar will advance!"


"What do you mean, Mar? You want to get in the way of this match?"


"Yes Bun. Damar will do anything to stop this. When necessary from now on Nanda back to live with Damar only if the mother remains insistent. Damar will also report to the police if you still force the will. Let the police take care of all this!"


"The room!"


"Sorry Bun, this is Damar's decision."


Damar is about to leave his mother's house, he will take Nanda with him, but Sigit and Lala are blocking, they also want to come with Damar. Can't bear to keep up with his mother's increasingly strange attitude. Any money.


"Sigit, Lala .. don't leave your mother, you should know, what you're doing for your good. Aren't you tired of living poor like this? You have to understand that!" resolute Ms. Anis.


"Bun, we don't want to get rich from sacrificing our own brothers." Sigit. "After all, Mother is very much. Sister Nanda has always done good with mother, she is the most devoted child to mother, why did you even want to sacrifice her?"


"You know what the hell, Git? Mother is your mother. Mother wants to give the best for you. So don't get me wrong. Understand that." Ms. Anis tried to persuade her two smallest children, but they did not. Staying alive wants to go with Damar. Because of fear of being left alone, finally Bu Anis gave up the cancellation of Nanda's match with Babeh Johan. "Your satisfaction, Mar! You will also be the one who regrets. It's for our common good. If our family is rich, there will be no more people who are trivial we and the big family mother will receive the mother back." Bu Anis to whine revealed his heart, about his longing for family, especially his mother. But until now he did not dare to meet sbeha he was a nobody. She was just a poor widow with four children who could not make her proud.


"Why is that? You don't like it, Mar. You don't have to talk to anyone!" Ms. Anis was angry, she was offended by what Damar offered, but she also did not have the courage to protest, for fear of being left alone. "If you keep imposing your will, you just give up!"


"Well then. Damar is leaving!" although only pretending but Damar really moved from his place.His mother immediately ketar-ketir.


"alright then. It's up to you, Damar.if you don't care anymore about bubea, it's okay!" Ms. Anis pretended to sulk. He actually wanted to pass, but also feared his son would be left behind.


***


Following Damar's plan, this morning Ms. Anis and her eldest were in the hospital for counselling with a psychologist. All on Dita's recommendation to know and treat her mother's inner wounds.


"Where else is this?" Ms. Anis was angry, it seemed true that she did not sincerely live it all, but there was no other choice than to be abandoned by her children.


Patiently Damar and Dita, more precisely Dita, who directed Bu Anis. He even waited for his mother-in-law, while his son Damar chose to wait outside because he avoided debate.


One by one the inner wounds of Bu Anis were opened. He recounts his burdens in living this life, where he was required to be able to protect the husband who was supposed to protect him.


After the therapy, Ms. Anis came out with mixed feelings. she even looked very tired, her eyes were even as a sign of crying out even though Bu Anis did not admit she was crying in her subconscious, but still he still could not accept his life now, so he grumbled when he met his daughter-in-law.


"How much longer are you going to do all this?" ask Ms. Anis ogah-ogahan.


"Please Bun, this is for the good of the mother "


"hey are. But tomorrow-tomorrow mother wants to go alone!" Firmly Bu Anis who already had a plan will skip but....


Damar doesn't budge. He and Dita just passed by, letting his mother back nagging with all her grievances.