My Dear Teacher

My Dear Teacher
Wedding Preparation


Still in a state of emotion, Damar headed for the house of Bu Dita. He could not hold back his anger anymore because his mother and sister still prejudiced badly to soft-hearted women like Bu Dita. Actually he felt embarrassed because in addition to beautiful paras, the heart of Bu Dita was also much more beautiful. That's why Damar loves her. He does not care even though their age is far adrift, after all it is not forbidden in his religion. The important thing is that they can take responsibility and take care of each other.


Arriving at Ms. Dita's house, Damar immediately knocked on her door. Before long the teacher came out, questioning why Damar looked so angry.


"Mom .. Whatever happens, I beg you to stay married to me. I really don't want to lose my mom, I want to be with my mom until the end of my life. I don't want to get married except with my mother" Damar said in a stammering voice. He could no longer endure the immense sadness.


Damar is not ashamed if he has to cry in front of Ms. Dita because for him, men crying is not something bad. Men also have feelings, however, need to cry to channel their emotions.


"Yes, I promised Damar. I will wait until you justify me." promised Ms. Dita.


"Then let's meet my mother now."


"Don't get carried away, Mar. When everything is discussed in a state of anger, usually the decision taken is not the best decision. Do you want the worst chance, your relationship and your family to get worse? Mar, face the old man must be patient. Do not get carried away by emotions. Now calm down, it's better to use your energy for positive things."


"For example?"


"How about you start preparing for our wedding."


"We?"


"The room!" bu Dita's cheeks instantly turned red, while Damar laughed out loud. He still likes to tease his teacher. But at least now Bu Dita is calmer because Damar can laugh again."When will you sign up for KUA?"


"As soon as possible, Mom."


"alright. But don't miss it. Monday's graduation announcement, if you don't mind how about we get married on Friday?"


"You ma'am, Tuesday can be too."


"Don't be so Damar. Everything has to be planned."


"But Ma'am ...."


"But what?"


"Nothing. What matters is that we are legally and religiously legitimate first. For the reception is not too important in my opinion."


"Alhamdulillah." For there is nothing more important to speak of, and the heart of Damar is calmer. So Bu Dita returned to expel Damar to leave his house immediately. Ms. Dita does not want to be a neighbor's gossip. They are not legitimate, however.


***


Damar continued his days. He drew closer to God in order to be more patient with his mother. Ms. Dita has reminded Damar not to get carried away by emotions. Satan loves to lose and is impatient. Meanwhile, even though he was still staying at the mess, Damar still visited his mother and sister. He brought food, left money to Sigit or Lala to give to his mother. Damar also began to pay for Nanda's registration. He hopes, with what he did this can be a way to melt the heart of his mother and can accept Bu Dita as a prospective companion of his life.


Unfortunately, Damar's efforts have not been successful. The money and food that he brought every day was taken. Even Nanda also gave a list of tuition fees to Damar. But still their hearts are still closed to Bu Dita.


"Abang must know one thing, we only want Rana's brother to be the companion of Brother, not Bu Dita!" firmly Nanda after giving the total initial cost of his lecture.


"What's wrong with Bu Dita being with you, Nan? Why can't you open your heart to accept it? You forced Abang with Rana, but you didn't love her. Marriage is not easy, Nan. You'll know that too." Damar.


"It is wrong to take your heart from all of us. Bu Dita has made Abang not obey the mother!" Nanda firmly.


"Well, who said? It is precisely Bu Dita who changed Brother to be better. My brother had dreams of the future because of it. If there is no Bu Dita maybe Brother will remain a third grade student of High School until old age. There is no future. Troublemaker. A slacker who doesn't care about his family. Understand, Nan! Think objectively. Not because you want something to judge people are not so consistent. It obviously has a good influence but because you don't like it you say it has a bad influence!"


"The object should also be objective. If there is no Miss Dita, Brother would have been with Rana's sister. But because of his presence that somehow made you like him, so now you ignore Rana's brother."


"Heh, from the past you didn't have any feelings for Rana. You misunderstood. Where has my brother ever responded!" Damar's getting pissed. Why did they conclude he used to like Rana too? Is it because he has never been in contact with another woman? But as Damar remembered, his association with Rana was also not too familiar. Very ordinary. He rarely even invites her to talk even though Rana often plays to his house. He also rarely wants to be invited to Rana's house, unless the mother is already angry and threatens not to give him shopping money. Then what rights like that can be used as a benchmark if he likes Rana? Damar said that was a strange thought.


Damar does not have many female friends because indeed since the first grade of High School he has liked Bu Dita. Not just admiring but love, the love of an adult man for his woman.


"Don't you feel sorry for Rana's sister?"


"Pity? What's for?" What to pity from a beautiful, smart, highly educated Rana comes from a family and certainly has almost everything that people want.


"But Rana didn't get Brother."


"Once already. This is getting worse. You and your mother cannot impose such a will. Just imagine Nan, if you were forced like me. Do you accept? I'm not sure you'll take it with legowo. So take care of Nan, before our fraternal relationship gets messed up. I will settle this matter with Rana, after this do not force anything else because the mother agrees or not, after graduating High School, I will marry Bu Dita. We already signed up for KUA" Damar said. He didn't give Nanda another chance to talk. Now Damar has to go somewhere because he needs to talk to someone he believes can solve everything. Shutter!