Can't Have You
Chapter 29's
When a man or woman gets married, there will usually be a variety of feelings. There is a sense of anxiety, fret, worry, worry, including impatiently waiting for the arrival of the companion. Even when in the process of ta’aruf though there is still a feeling of doubt.
However, there also appears a sense of concern. For the future husband, then the worry haunts his mind. Worried about how it will be after marriage? Can it meet the needs of the household or not? How will it be after having children, able to guide and educate them? Moreover, the needs of everyday life are getting expensive from year to year.
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Don't Doubt Sometimes to Get Married for Economic Reasons and Fear of Poor. For Allah is Spending the Procurement on Married Men. Not believing? This is God's promise.
And marry those who are still single among you, and those who are worthy (married) of your true servants who are male and female. If they are poor, God will give them the power of His bounty. And Allah is All-Knowing (His Gift).
(Any Nuur :32)
This verse is the answer for those of us who are still hesitant to step into marriage for economic reasons. What needs to be emphasized to young people is the ability to provide a living, continue to work to make a living for family needs.
Actually Married Also No Need to Wait Mapan and Rich, which is Important to Have a Job and Keep Trying and willing to try it is quite extraordinary.
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Now Women Age Now, a lot of self-defense for not having the courage to get married. They say "it's better to get married late than to pick the wrong partner."
Better than where ? I'm asking a question?
The only thing that can be used as an answer is many cases of domestic violence to the point of divorce.
A failed assumption. Imagine if you choose late marriage, the hope is not to choose the wrong partner. So, is there a guarantee late marriage is definitely a good couple.? Not really, if it can be worse it will suffer a fatal loss.
*It's too late to get married
*Solid select a real partner.
(Ahahahahhaha In my Heart is open).
If so, the consequences will be too late in building a new household. Especially for women, other than because you already look older, no longer original, and no longer attractive. You may not sell anymore and you can be widowed all the time.
Is that what you want? If I was, Ohw now. ⁇ ️
Fear of marriage with the poor, want the same people "sugeh". Maybe if you fight hard you can get a partner who is "well enough." as you want🤣
You can also live enough and there are.
But remember, God gives a fair test to his people.
As if if we were to complete the test we chose it ourselves. !!
Get a rich partner - Tp likes to cheat, so there are frequent arguments in the household.
Loyal spouses - With families who do not have, finally have to bother trying together.
He's a successful businessman - but it's hard to have a child even hated as a parent.
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He's a religious scholar - you have to be ready for honey.
He's not a religious expert, so you're hard-earned to reshape his personality.
She's pretty/handsome, but arrogant towards your parents and doesn't want to hang out with neighbors.
She is not beautiful/handsome - Obey you, obey your parents.
All of it there is a reciprocal, you can't get a set like you want. She is handsome or beautiful, from a family of rich people, she is a successful businessman, police/midwife, her parents are good, trus can live happily to have two children, a boy and a girl. Hmm I say it only exists in your imaginary world brother or sister.
If everything happens as you wish, where is the will of God, where is the test. You want to live without testing. Everyone wants it, but God has his own will.
If you want to get married, then marry. Do not think much, because we do not know what God's plan is. Worry in your heart is the whisper of Satan that you do not marry, for if you marry, spread your faith in God and Satan does not want it to happen. So the devil has different ways of stopping you from being afraid of marriage.
Because marriage is faster to get a reward from God, just look at the couple already got what more reward if more than that amazing reward and be assured that marriage is more beautiful than courtship, after marriage the sensation is more. Don't believe, just try.(requesku same dong)😂🤭
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