Can't Have You
Chapter 26's
The day of happiness has arrived. Today you will say that witnessed by many human eyes and even angels, how happy.
You came together with your big family group. Two cars and some motor accompaniment. Then walk in line to my house with a set of dowry and a beautiful decorated delivery with the box.
With a black man's clothes, brother looked dashing.
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While I waited in prayer behind the dress in white (sacred) from my room, accompanied by my two brothers Mulyati and her sister waiting for her brother and family group to pick up to the mosque.
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Now we have gathered in a mosque and the host has started to open our wedding. The series of events starts from the opening, the divine recitation, then welcome. Then enter the core event. There are no custom events, everything is conceptualized as simply as possible.
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You sit opposite my father. Shake hands to say ijab and qobul. Mr. Pengulu presided over this session. One exercise without any mistake.
Bismilahbornohmanirrahim
Starting with Istighfar and reciting the shahada, my father started the ijab and qobul once.
After that my father called the name of the future husband.. Father: Irwansyah..??
Then""""""
husband of: Iootaaaaa.
Father: I want you Irwansyah with the sumarni of my biological children with the dowry of 2 grams of gold Tuuuunaaaaiiiii........ *
Prospective husband: I accept Sumarni's marriage with a dowry called Tuuuunaaaaiiiii...*
Smoothly....
How's Witness? (asked by Penghulu)
The big family answered.. The law!!! The law!! The law!!
Alhamdulilbornobbil.
Barokallaahulakuma wa barokah 'alaykuma wa jama' ah baynakuma fii khoir. May be a happy family mawaddah warohmah full of blessings, aamiin🤲
The angel also prayed, the audience also assured. I should be happy relieved.
Since the pengulu father guided my prayer ijab session uninterrupted, I repeated it until the agreement was completed.
Robbanaa hablana min azwajina wa dzurriyyaatina qurrota a'yun waaj'alna lil muttaqiiyna imaama...
Aamiin.🤲 aamiin🤲 aamiin🤲
Then I called to sit in front of my husband. Then my heart was pounding because it sat directly in front of the figure of the Man who is now my Husband and has justified me in front of my big exit and his extended family.
Welcome your wife, no papa you have become a legitimate husband and wife said her teacher and silatnya🤭 teacher
At that time you become misbehaved, your face is still without pale, maybe a nervous influence even though you have spoken. That day my brother looked handsome heheheheh
I sat down before my husband, as he entered the dowry procession (Pair of rings in sweet jari) trembling as he bowed to his brother, I blushed in shame. This is my first moment for us.
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After the granting of the dowry of the pengupulu again led a series of KUA administration events, the signature of several letters and reading sighot taqlid by the husband.
Starting that detention, we have legally become husband and wife both religiously and legally in the country. Continue the advice by the pengulu about premarital and closed with prayer.
After the event, invited guests are welcome to eat the dishes that have been provided. Some others choose to congratulate and capture the moment with the bride. After posing and then we went home because of Friday, we almost wanted to go in and finally we went home and changed his wedding dress.😁
The day has changed and the time to prepare for our traditional event at night is usually called mappatuade night (Kapanca). Morning to evening all the neighbors are busy wrapping the cake to prepare the guest connector for later tonight and this afternoon mbak makeup came to re-decorate so that the evening event can be held.
The night has arrived, I am still dressed and dressed in a wedding dress that mingles our traditional clothes. After finishing makeup we did a photo session first before going down to the stage. When I got down from my house was welcomed by father2 and disholawatin first before the foot to the ground and the road joined with my husband to the stage with thousands of human eyes who came to watch our kapanca night.
After we sat in front of us and saw many people in front of us.
There are several series of events namely opening, divine kalam readings and remembrance. After opening the show MC called people to read the holy verse of the Qur'an after that then dhikr.
After the event zikir kapanca map was completed as well as a series of events and Mc also closed the show. After that we did another photo session before we took a break and took off our wedding dress, after which we went home and took off the dress and took a break but people still read the divine Kalam. But I decided to go to bed first because the week of tomorrow there is still the most anticipated event2kan by friends and relatives that is the reception event.
Sunday Arrived, all about was busy to prepare food for the invited guests later in the afternoon and noon arrived too, finally mbak fairy came also to decorate me.
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Our entourage until in front of the guarantee we entered the venue, the committee directed us to march towards the stage. My cousin and niece as little brides. They are cute and beautiful girls when in their makeup more beautiful. They walked from behind me and my husband.
Attend that we respect let us welcome the two happy brides into the singasana. We walked along the red carpet to the stage with happy smiles. Music and shots from the photographer.
Unexpectedly, in the end we felt like sitting on a stage like this and being a king and queen for a day.
Then Mc read the arrangement of the event by continuing to open the event together reciting the basmalah...
Bismilbornohmanirrahim.
Before entering at the end of the event mc had invited guests to give prayers with a shake, hug, congratulate one by one accompanied by music (DN Music).
After the event, friends enliven the stage with a photo action together. Hilarious, exciting and happy. And thank God finished also the series of events🤣wedding ku🤣