Can't Have You
Chapter 27's
Mapan used to be newly married, it is the jargon of children and parents today that is difficult to be erased from the dictionary of life now. At least the jargon gives a signal, that building a household must be equally established.
Studies show that each person or family has different reasons. There are those who state with established first family life will last longer because of the financial aspects and facilities have been met. There are also those who claim to be well established in advance the prospective wife or husband is much more ready to accept the proposal/engagement and socially better than those who start a family life from scratch.
The question asked by me is? when is the time established and does established first guarantee a happy life in the future?
The big question is of course each person will not be able to answer it quickly because established and happy are very closely related to the process of undergoing and in building a household. If the size of the establishment must have a house first, a vehicle first and savings first, then what work must be undertaken and up to how many years will be achieved? this is an even sharper question (eheheheh laughs at me)
If faced with a choice like this, I prefer to accompany my partner from zero to success. Despite learning from the experience, the couple is happy with others. At least, I can learn that waiting and processing together does not always have to bear fruit with results. Because of the fate of our creator, no one knows who we will live with and be happy later.
Indeed, happiness and possessions have a strong correlation, but happiness is not synonymous with abundant treasures or facilities because the size of human happiness is closely related to building love in the household they build.
If with the property of a wife and husband is already very happy, then why are many established family couples and abundant wealth unhappy in building a family even lead to grief that is divorce and full of wounds. Well, that means that property is not a tool or recipe in building a family, so that the family remains happy always. Because the portion of responsibility, sacrifice, mutual involvement, and mutual filling are the most important parts of family and love will grow from the process.
Treasures and facilities are only a sub-component of the journey of family life because what is more valuable than that is the love there is for the family. Wkwkwkwkkw
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Know that Love will produce many works in a family one of which is infinite happiness and treasure is only as a participant in his journey to continue the needs of each Day. For that in fact, family is not only an option but becomes a necessity because all the potential of individuals joined in the bonds of love which then gave birth to many special works that present children/a generation that can answer the problems of world civilization.
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So starting a family from zero will be able to subvert the spirit of sacrifice, responsibility and true love for married couples because of various difficult situations he has been able to go through compared to family couples who are able to get ahead finacially and facility because the struggle process he did not do together.
So family is also about building a mature mentality and mentality will be able to give the age of marriage is very long even to old and leave the world.
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I say to Everyone: Hay servant of God, here listen to what I say!!.........
Not everyone can accompany a partner from scratch, but there are some of them who are really lasting and willing to accompany their partner from scratch
With a man fighting for the future, it takes more than love. We need to be tough to accompany him through the struggle. To accompany the difficult times of men, we are not only required to accept him as he is. But also to give pause. So that he also has room to grow.
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Seriate