I'm Not the Perfect Wife
Rey and Our Wedding Party

What I chose was the belief that I would vote for you Mey, I couldn't realize, our meeting was so quick, and so quick was the decision we made. When I was asked my seriousness to you by your family, I was so sure I chose this marriage. And with a short time I also took wedding time for us.

Reyhan and Meyanite

April 25th

4 months from the beginning we knew, then decided to unite our bonds in a marriage. Indeed, when I first met you, I didn't want to treat NU like any other woman I'd known before. I have been hurt and I have hurt.

I introduced you to my extended family, and I was glad to see you could easily blend in with my family.

I love your way, your meek nature, your concern, and you who never demand me much. I'm sure you can be a good wife to me.

I failed in a relationship with another woman. Hopefully with you, I can live this marriage forever. Implied trauma of my failure, it turns out a concern also my extended family. However, tonight my relatives have gathered. All equally happy, I was the only child. However, my brother and father are many. Of the many people who were just as excited and kept drifting in the night chatter, me and my heart had a bit of uneasiness. Tomorrow is my wedding day, and I hope there are no more failures. I hope this really goes well.

I spent my time at the mosque tonight. I leave it all in prayer. As a man I very rarely show my tears. But, tonight all of a sudden my tears just kept flowing, like this was a big choice. I don't want and never expect my home to be what my father and mother are. That, is something I hate.

I was born into a broken home. I never liked my father and mother's relationship. My father, often married again even to have another child with another woman. And my mother, she did the same thing. However, they still maintain their relationship. I think it's an unhealthy relationship. But, as a child I couldn't interfere in their affairs, which I knew only I didn't like.

My evening prayer ....

I pray tonight, I hope it's the best decision of my life. Choosing a woman who is very short for me to know her. May my faith in his interdiction be the blessing of Thou Hastened, Rabb...

lord, tomorrow is our wedding day, give it smoothness.

Lord, may this woman whom I choose be your woman of choice to me.

o Lord, make this household that I will live in into a household that I dream of a household that You also desire.

My eyes really can't be closed. Until the dawn of adhan.

Tonight I really spent my time in prayer, I spent my time in prayer.

Hope everything goes well today. I was still sitting in the mosque, my family began to wake up one by one, all busy themselves, some prepare delivery, arrange and arrange it, some are improving themselves. Everyone wants to be happy today.

At 06:00 in the morning.

"loh, where's Rey" my cousin's sister panicked too.

"BANG REY.. is in the mushola" cried my little niece to tell all.

My mother finally approached. "Rey, you're here!, here's the wedding dress you're wearing ya. mamah think you're going, make all worry" my mother thrust me a wedding dress that has been prepared. I also moved out of my seat. There weren't many words I said, "thank you" as I took the shirt and I walked into my room. I put on my wedding dress complete with her suit and her shoes. I kept praying, it felt like my faith was so strong to challenge Mey.

All the families are in their vehicles. Everything that has been prepared is already in one of the vehicles that have been provided.

The brides have departed, along the way there are all kinds of flavors in their mind "my big family". I kept holding my phone, trying to contact Mey when I was on my way. The first time I felt nervous was very, either happy but my heart was pounding, my legs were hard for me to control, maybe it was natural that the feeling of everyone who was going to get married was like this.

I sent a message.

"Mey I've started the road"

The message was sent, and Mey didn't answer my message. I called Mey too.

"Yank, soon the group arrived" said Rey immediately informed Mey.

"hhmm oh yes." Mey replied briefly, and the phone was immediately turned off.

Right the group had all gathered, each of them had brought his eyes, then me and my parents were directed by the photographer, the welcome from the ladies, and the, and I was picked up by Mey's mother and guardian, and I haven't seen Mey at all.

My heart is beating faster. My legs are getting shaky, happy mixed up. All eyes look at me, the groom-to-be who of course many want to know what I am like. And the wedding is an event that is held solemnly.

Then the sound of firecrackers made me surprised, hihihi understand I did not know it would be a welcome by lighting firecrackers. Her mother Mey approached me, and put on a necklace of fresh jasmine flowers. We were sent and accompanied by shalawat.

It turned out that the penghulu was already in place, and various kinds of welcome, handover I finally did the marriage contract smoothly. And Mey came out, sat next to me. Mey's a simple woman that she never wears makeup. However, on this day Mey looks very beautiful. Mey signed the file and the marriage certificate, and then we took the photo along with the photographer's direction.

And we also sat in the hall together to welcome the invited guests. Sometimes Mey and I talk, joking. Being a bride is exhausting.

Hehehee

Mey is now officially my wife.