Cupid I'M In Love
Chapter 31 Calms His Friend's Heart

After Nadia finished changing clothes, Nadia immediately prayed Dzuhur and had a short lunch, after which Nadia immediately rushed to her mother's food stall, to help sell there.

At half 5 pm Nadia had gone home first. Because he'll clean up and clean the house. After finishing all his homework, he immediately took a bath, prayed and rest.

On the sidelines of this break, Nadia wanted to contact Mirna. Although a little doubt, but finally Nadia ventured to call Mirna.

A few seconds later, he waited, and the phone finally picked up. Then Nadia said over the phone, "hallo, assalamu'alaikum Mirna."

"Wa'alaikumsalam, Nad," Mirna answered briefly. The situation between Mirna and Nadia here is still very awkward. Actually Mirna wanted to say more but there was still a sense of fear.

"Myrna, thank you, you've always been willing to pick up the phone from me. I want to apologize Mir, if all this time I had a mistake with you, whether I intentionally or not," said Nadia.

"Nadia, actually you don't need to apologize, because you're innocent Nad. I'm guilty of you, Nad. As your best friend, I'm staying away from you."

Mirna felt sorry for what she had done so far. He felt that he had harmed and hurt his best friend.

"Mirna, if you have a problem, dong told me, what problem do you have? maybe at least, if I can't help you, but at least it can lighten your mind a little Mir" Nadia said.

Mirna thought for a long time whether she should tell Nadia about her family's problems. After he considered both the good and the bad, Mirna finally dared to speak.

Mirna tells everything, starting from the problem of threats from Rani, a letter of agreement and the problem of disgrace of her family.

Nadia finally understood, why Mirna had stayed away from her all this time. Nadia tells Mirna she's going to come up with an idea on how to get her out of Rani's threat.

Mirna who actually got a solution from Ricky, just agree with the words of Nadia, he did not want to discuss his deal with Ricky.

In the phone Nadia tried to ask Mirna, about her father's affair. Not to be insulting, but he wanted to ask more clearly Mirna's true feelings.

"Myrna, sorry yes earlier, not meant to insult/lean your father's disgrace, but I want to know exactly how you feel. What do you feel and do after knowing that your father cheated on you?"

Mirna was silent for a moment, and then she started to talk, "the first time I knew, it was so sad for Nad. Why would you do something like that to your mom."

"After some time I found out, I found papa cheating with another dream woman. It's not so complicated to explore the reasons why papa cheated."

"In the early days my parents were not married, papa was just an ordinary employee, while mama was the employer's son from the company where my father worked."

"But because of his patience and intelligence, my grandfather as the owner of the company was very interested in papa, and began to increase his position. Grandfather over time had the initiative to betroth his only daughter, mama to my papa."

"Maybe from the beginning of the matchmaking is what makes the problem of this affair arise in the future."

"Time after time, until the nature of the mother becomes superior, often underestimating papa, because the position that you have is indeed sourced from the mother's family."

"Reverse comparison with a calm and easily influenced papa. Checks often occur, money and property are always leveraged. Papa often feels that he is the head of a lousy family. As for the mother, she felt that she had sacrificed everything for us."

"The wheel is spinning. After the grandfather (father of the mother) died all the efforts were controlled by the papa, and the company advanced rapidly. All of my Mama and I's material needs were met. But papa's biological needs are not met."

"Mama's nature does not change, making papa bored at home. Until finally he met another woman of his dreams. They cheated almost 1 year, Nad. Caught by the man who claimed to have seen papa's car in the woman's house."

"Mama immediately spied on papa who turned out to be cheating. Mama's mad not a bitch, berserk, screaming, crying, saying rough and hitting papa."

"I'm the only child (who rarely expresses opinions in the family) can only be quiet and say patiently, more often listening to them quarrel secretly. I express my sadness more through prayer, preferring to write down my feelings through writing."

"To be honest my heart was broken, I was stuck by the position, from a small child not a child who likes to confide in parents and siblings makes me a quiet and hard-hearted person."

"Ingin to express opinions but the fall even patronizes them. Finally all I can do is pray, pray, cry and pray, hope my prayer becomes the door opener of their hearts" Mirna told Nadia at length.

Nadia also tried to share her opinion and give advice to Mirna about her feelings. Nadia said, "if you rebuke your parents, that cheating is wrong, often they will not admit to being wrong Mir."

"They're getting angry, thinking they're hampering their source of happiness and making them even more afraid that you'll leave them."

"The more fear arises means the deeper the sense of distrust towards the couple/family that has been buried in them. And deeply, the cheating parent will have a very big guilt, especially to his own children."

Mirna heard Nadia's words on the phone earlier, listening while nodding her head, a sign that she agreed to Nadia's words just now.

"The guilt will haunt them until they enter the next world, even death cannot release it from this curse (which is why parents who have made mistakes such as cheating will be very vulnerable to symptoms of depression and suicide)," Nadia continued.

"Both of your parents need to know that they are still loved and forgiven by you. If you forgive, then it'll make it easier for your father to let go of the third party because you love what it is."

"Saranku mir, to deal with these two parents, first, tell them that you still love your father (so that he does not fear)."

"Second, tell me what things you already know or you are upset about the affair (so your father understands his mistake and does not allow himself to continue the wrong relationship)."

Third, tell him that you have forgiven him and want him to return to being your father as before. Tell them that there is still a chance to restore it.

"Your parents are not enemies, but rather people who need the hospitality of your decision to forgive them."

"Need to remember Mir, that if your parents still have self-justification. Actually, you don't have to be upset (even though it will appear upset) or argue with them because of the words they say."

"Then all you need to do is to heal the feelings of your vulnerable parents behind the words of those who are trying to escape the real problem."

"That they feel guilty and need forgiveness from the child. You need to give affirmations that your parents are still dear and there is no need to be afraid until you have to say the words that mask their wounds."

"You know their mistakes and forgive them. This is the sound they need to heal."

"In this way, they will increasingly believe and confess their mistakes and want reconciliation. That's why you have to be strong with yourself."

"You can get support from your brother or me as your best friend to help strengthen your emotions and psyche before dealing with the wounds of your parents who are already infected with fear, hatred, etc."

"Only with the power of compassion can you get through this challenge Mir. Emmm .. earlier I was sorry, Mir, I dared to talk like this, maybe like a patron," said Nadia.

"No Nad, I'm very grateful, can be given the same input elo. All the elo talk made sense, and I can try to do it, hopefully my parents can understand" replied Mirna.

"Thank you Nad, even though we are currently talking only by phone, but it has made my heart calm Nad, thanks to many Nad, elo is my best friend," continued Mirna.

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