A SOUL FROM THE SKY
CHAPTER 44. Memory Tama
...Take care of Your Oral, Keep Your Speech, Maybe you're just kidding. But remember Who hears Not Sure Is OK...
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When at home maybe Tama is always making out and spoiled with his wife, but do not be asked when Tama Tama is already in the hospital, Do not joke, just smile maybe he is just as necessary.
Maybe Tama looks fine, but in her heart still holds a wound to Inara's previous actions.
Maybe it will be quiet or make calculations, not yet thought Tama, which is clear for now Tama only wants to avoid Inara and no longer relate to women who have tried to damage the integrity of the household with Nissa.
Inara may be Tama's best friend, but as a best friend there are limits, and Tama clearly knows how.
Fresh in Tama's memory when that day , Tama found a change in Nissa's attitude, without being known by both Ustadz Hamzah also knew it.
Luckily his father-in-law did not then scold or drop his self-esteem, precisely Ustadz Hamzah applies the opposite, advising and giving valuable knowledge to Tama.
Of course this has to do with him being friends with Inara.
Islam does not forbid friendship between men and women, only Islam has ethics or sharia so that we avoid adultery and can live a safe relationship in the world and in the hereafter.
Men and women have a tendency/interest in each other, so it is necessary to be careful in the friendship relationship of the opposite sex. In Islam mentioned its limitations so as not to fall into slander and adultery, here are some points that must be considered.
First, to subject the gaze, especially to the men of faith, so that they may subdue their views of women and the aurats which are not lawful to them.
Allah says in Surat An-Nur Verse 30, “Tell men of faith: “Should they withhold their views, and keep ***********; that is holier for them, surely Allah is All-Knowing of what they do.
The Prophet said, “The eyes are fornicating, the heart is for fornication. The adultery of the eye is by seeing (which is forbidden), the adultery of the heart is by imagining (the trigger of forbidden orgasm). While ********justifies or denies all of it.” (CHR. Ahmadis). The Prophet explained, starting from adultery of the eyes, then adultery of the heart/mind, hands, feet, and ********. And adultery******** becomes the proof of all that adultery if it ends up actually adulterous, or belies it if it does not commit adultery.
Second, khalwat or both-male and female in addition to mahram is not allowed, the two-dua that is not allowed it is not every condition. There are two, some are allowed and not, which should not be in a closed place or can not be seen by the human eye. As for khalwat in a place that can be monitored by the human eye or the public and there are needs or in accordance with the needs it is permissible.
“From Anas bin Malik that a woman whose mind is somewhat disturbed said to Prophet shalallahu ‘alaihi wasallam, ‘Wahai Rasulullah, I have no need with you,’ then Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam said to him, ‘Oh Umm Fulan, look at whichever path you want until I meet your needs.’ So the Prophet Shallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam also chatted with the woman on a road until the woman was finished from her needs.”((HR. Muslim). “Then the Prophet also chatted with women in a/part of the street or part of it ⁇ (sukak).” And 『High, is the path used for walking that is usually always passed by humans.
Had thought if not Ustadz Hamzah his father-in-law would have exhausted him in the family of his wife, lucky ustadz Hamzah not only looked one eye so that the advice to Tama was the one he finally gave.
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