A SOUL FROM THE SKY
CHAPTER 19. Advice Ustadz Hamzah

...The beauty of life is your decision. So that your anger and sadness cannot be longer than your joy....

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After Inara's condition was better than before, Ms. Sisca and Mr. Dawn came out of the room, allowing Inara to rest well.

After the two of them left the room, Tama and Inara were left. The atmosphere seemed so silent, with both of them being silent with their respective minds.

Tama still faithfully stood by the bedside, observing Inara's condition which seemed to be still so weak.

While Inara also continued to throw her eyes to the side, trying to hide her sadness and tears from Tama .

"Why Ra ?"

Reluctant to give an answer, Inara was still at home with her silence, still so shocked by the reality that she had just heard even directly from the old man who now stopped in her heart.

Until a waiter came in with a warm drink for Inara, having previously been ordered by her master to be brought into the guest room.

"Put it down there mba" Tama said

"Good sir"

After putting down the drink, the waiter came back out of the room and left both of them.

"You can tell me there's a problem with Ra" Tama said

Not giving an answer precisely now Inara felt her tears could no longer be held until Isak was clearly heard in Tama's ears. To be honest it was enough to make Tama think there is a problem what is his best friend.

"It is precisely my problem right now that you are tam" Inara said inwardly

Finding Inara who continues to feel at home with her silence, Tama began to feel saturation.

"OKAY. You rest first, I'll go out, if you need anything you can call me or the waiter here" said Tama

"No need to !"

"I want to go home now !! "

Hearing the cold words from Inara, as if Tama was surprised, before Tama wanted to leave the room, Inara was so quiet, but at this time Inara wanted to go home immediately.

"You're sure" Tama asked

Instead of giving an answer, Inara got up from her sleep, pulled away the blanket she had previously worn, immediately got out of bed to leave Tama.

But only a few steps Inara again stopped his legs. Inara felt her head turn again, until her body staggered and almost fell to the floor.

But luckily there is still Tama there, until Tama quickly caught Inara's body again.

"You better take a break Ra"

"No !! I want to go home"

To be honest Tama did not feel the heart to see the condition of the friend, but in fact Inara herself who wants to go home soon.

"All right, I'll take you home "

Again not giving an answer, Inara just passed by leaving Tama who was still glued to the doorstep of the guest room.

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While Tama is being confused with the act and attitude of his best friend. Nissa is busy with wedding preparations.

To be honest it wasn't Nissa who was preparing for the wedding, most of her siblings Abi and Ummi who had gotten word regarding Nissa's wedding and then came along, and who were further busy preparing the needs for Nissa's wedding with Tama.

While Nissa is currently fasting, she chooses to concern herself with the Mushaf and dhikr that Abi has ordered to her.

Maybe occasionally Nissa also went out of the room to just greet the brothers and nephews who came there.

It was certainly not without reason Nissa did, of course because the Abi gave him a lot of advice and encouragement before Nissa really stepped into the marriage.

A moment of Nissa's daydream goes back to Abi Hamzah's sentence, about the trials in marriage, or before marriage more precisely.

In Islam, the pre-marriage ordeal is a test of Allah given as a reminder for Muslim couples to run their households according to the Shari'a.

Marriage is a happy moment that is very much awaited by the couple. Even so, it cannot be denied that there are only trials that approach.

In Islam, the temptation before marriage is often approaching both brides-to-be. This is one of the tests given by Allah SWT as a reminder for both people who want to build a household on His Ridha.

The trial is given not without reason, but to train the patience of prospective couples so that they are stronger to organize their households later.

The test that befalls a person is given to see how much patience he has, as well as how much he establishes himself to him (prospective partner).

It is obvious that Hamzah is so long and wide. In addition, Ustadz Hamzah also told the princess if possible there would be many previous trials that will be experienced by both of them:

People in the past.

It is one of the temptations before marriage that often approaches. The presence of people from the past, aka the former, often makes one's heart become shaky when stepping into the guarantee.

This is a severe ordeal, because usually in moments like this the ex will look more attractive than prospective couples so that the doubt of marriage can arise.

Not fit with the lack of a partner.

In preparing for marriage, of course, couples will know each other better. Including in this case, the shortcomings and properties of each will begin to unfold slowly.

When a partner's shortcomings begin to be exposed, a person's heart may become shaky. Thoughts of hesitation can arise, for example; ‘Kok him like that?’, ‘Revealed this nature, ya’, ‘It seems I can not face him’.

Financial issues

Inevitably, financial problems are also one of the temptations before the wedding that often makes the bride and groom dizzy to think about it. In fact, it is not uncommon for anyone to decide to cancel marriage because they feel unable financially.

Less confident.

Not infrequently someone experiences overthinking before the wedding day. A woman may question whether she can be a good wife and mother, whether she is capable enough to take care of the household, as well as other doubts.

There was a sudden sense of doubt

True, the temptation before marriage does not always have a reason. Sometimes, the hesitation to continue to marry a prospective partner can arise suddenly for no apparent reason. This is one form of trial that needs to be watched out for, because this could be one form of Satanic deception that wants to shake the determination of the bride and groom to worship Allah SWT through marriage.

Not only that, but Ustadz Hamzah also explained some ways to deal with problems or tests before the wedding.

Narrate marriage in the name of Allah SWT to worship Him.

With good intentions, then Allah SWT will also help to facilitate the bride and groom in the face of trials.

Put in mind that getting married means being able to accept each other's shortcomings.

While the lack of a partner is not related to violence or things that will harm your household later, accept the shortcomings sincerely. If necessary, there is no harm in also establishing good communication related to dealing with the shortcomings of each later.

Prepare for marriage carefully.

It never hurts to discuss with your partner about your purpose in getting married. For example, if you have built a household later, you will live what kind of life, plan to have how many children, and so on. Consider your purpose in getting married so that there are no doubts in the middle of the road.

Keep praying for guidance and given confidence by Allah SWT regarding the decision to marry. For example, always recite and ask for His pleasure, or perform prayers of istikharah to be given strength and guidance.

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