Parenting
Old Style Parenting Vs Modern Style Parenting

Old Style Parenting Vs Modern Style Parenting

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Education and parenting of old age children carried out by our parents must have a good side and bad. Therefore, we as parents who live in the present era can try to take lessons from it all in order to choose which is worth emulating and which should be left behind.

As we already know parenting in the past is synonymous with military-style parenting.

Suppose, when the child makes trivial mistakes or natural things as done by small children his age then our parents will spontaneously punish by sabetan using two sticks of bidi in the calf or punishment other physical.

The treatment we have experienced will be stored in our subconscious and usually without realizing it we also pass on with what we have received first to our children today.

Even though we already understand if the upbringing that uses physical punishment will have a negative impact on children. However, we often cannot escape from it all.

How can we move on from the past? Among them we must be able to make peace with our own hearts. Must be able to bury deep in all the bad events.

Still able to maintain sanity alone is actually very lucky and grateful for our parents first. Because not infrequently the rigors of life make them become accustomed to the upbringing downhill like that.

In addition, the lack of theories of parenting science in our parents could also be one of the causes of wrong care.

One way that we can break the chain of wrong parenting is one of them trying to understand and be honored to be able to forgive all the mistakes that our parents have done in providing education that is like those.

Also instill in the heart as much as possible not to adopt the way of parenting by not applying physical punishment to future generations. Just stop and end up in us. For future grandchildren, hopefully we can provide a good and more directed education and parenting.

One way is to press in the emotions on yourself so as not to take the wrong step in making a decision.

One thing we must understand and we believe if the true ridha of a child lies in the ridha of his own parents.

So, uh, as bad as the behavior of parents before to their children, the Islamic law will still tell the child to respect his parents and as much as possible so as not to be a child who is disobedient to the parents by the reason for too many wounds we received in the past. Naudzubillahimindzalik.

Let us begin to improve ourselves so that we can accompany our beloved sons and daughters with an abundance of sincere affection either through attitudes or words in front of children. With the hope that the baby can grow and develop happily without leaving a wound in the future.

Among them by often showering sincere hugs and kisses on children so that they feel so valuable in our lives as parents.