His Virgin Ex Wife
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Rayya acknowledged his weakness. In fact, she could not if lingering in the work room owned by her ex-husband. He chose to follow Shanaz and get out. Rayya brought some colorful pens and sticky notes paper. He then walked towards the room, ignoring Shanaz's bewildered face as they caught a glimpse in the kitchen.

He chose to enter the room and then turn on the air purifier-air purifier. The book in his hand was dusty. Even though Bibi cleaned the workspace, but still the books in the closet were difficult to clean one by one. If anyone says the smell of the old paper is longing, Rayya is confused. His old collection books are a little dusty. The smell that is just a cough. Rayya was afraid.he suddenly snick sneezing because of dust pollution.

The woman headed to the dresser. He pulled up the chair, sat down, took a sterile tissue and wiped the covers and edges of the book from the airborne dust. Next he began to open, reading the sheets of writing in the book.

Rayya found colorful notes from her learning process years ago. When reading a book, Rayya used to mark any important thing and then stick to sticky notes or post it.

The book, in the first chapter, tells the story of a woman, a former alcoholic, who managed to transition into a career woman. He was desperate. Her boyfriend calls her up - asks for a break up, then gets into a relationship with another woman. At one point, the woman was successful in changing fate. He is motivated to quit the addiction, then have a fun job.

Rayya sighed. This chapter is not the key to the problem. He's not an alcoholic. Without excessive change, Rayya has success and a brilliant career. Rayya can even fall into the category of perfect women, according to the words of her ex-husband. He was not cast out for lack, but for being too good. Such a cliche!

Rayya flipped the book several pages, finding a note that he had pasted using sticky notes about cravings. A University Of Cambridge neuroscience professor conducted a study on a group of monkeys. They found the habitual ring, the cravings, as they called it.

The series of activities becomes a patterned and organized activity cycle, a habit arises. Starting from the sign, in this case, the researchers turned on the lamp. If the monkeys saw it, their brains anticipated a reaction. They responded to the marks the researchers gave them by doing certain things. After that, they get a gift, a drink they like. They crave a gift or a reward.

When they don't get the usual reward or reward, the monkeys go on a rampage. That's what makes the cravings pattern formed. Because the monkeys want a gift!

The problem of cravings also made the employees of the company Protect and Gambling - a daily goods company such as soap, shampoo, toothpaste, managed to make mass sales, winning the majority of consumers. Everything can start from making consumers obsessed with their products, packaging ads so alluring and interesting, epic. Then without realizing it, consumers are consumed by advertising incitement, making them crave.

It took some time to make the apes obsessed with rewards. It took several years of research for sales division employees to win the market. Then Ibrahim Busro used his years to conceptualize Rayya's head, instilling the belief that she wanted her grandson, David Busro. Making the subconscious in Rayya's mind crave, wanting very, very, that the most important thing in his life is.

Rayya raised her face and looked at the mirror. He is a human being, not an ape or any other mammal.

“Miss!”

Rayya blinked when she heard his assistant screech.

“There's a call from Jeng Ayu. Miss going there? This happens to be a cancel customer. If you want body treatment, now we go there?”

He nodded back, looking at the woman. “Naz... humans are just as intelligent apes as humans, right?”

“Ha?” Shanaz gawking. For God's sake..Why else is this boss?

“According to research in Cambridge, apes will go berserk when they do not get their wish,” said his boss while reading something.

Holy hooch! Is the book the cause? The writing in the book made Rayya more and more clueless? Shanaz sat down, warning himself to stay away from any collection of Rayya's books. The book can wash the human brain. Shanaz needs to be vigilant!

“Humans are smarter than apes, right? Supposedly, humans can resist feelings. Supposedly, I don't go berserk when my life doesn't go the way it should, like the dreams I want. Right, guys? I should have been able to understand this concept a long time ago.”

“Ha?” Shanaz is back.

“At least, I am human. I have intelligence beyond apes. I am not a stupid man. Right, guys? If I say I'm smart, do you believe?”

Shanaz retreated slowly while raising the phone. “Sorry Mba, I don't think we are. Maybe next time. We will make a reservation if we want care.”

Holy hooch!

The young lady wanted to say, I don't know.I've never dated a salesman tofu round. Shanaz sighed then observed his superior, peeking out from behind the tenuous door of the room.

Rayya stared at the face from the reflection of the glass. Looks like this is what happened. He's middle. In fact, no matter how smart a human being is, the feeling of cravings is a natural thing.

This pattern of cravings has also been studied in various other universities to various patients. There are patients who want to change bad habits, there are patients who just want to improve the quality of life. They have something in common. The feeling of cravings turns out to have the same pattern: a sign-routine-reward. All the processes of desire-cravings, beginning with a certain sign.

But.. so that he can be completely cured, Rayya tries to analyze the pattern of cravings that he has. If he wants to recover, like other patients, Rayya must quickly identify his cravings to be able to overcome them.

In her case, at least during the later years, her feelings, coveting her ex-husband, always had a special marker. Like like this. He had a bad day, say he failed or felt insecure because of something. This is the marker, the beginning of the cravings phase.

After he had a bad mood and urgency, Rayya usually did something. He was looking for a way to solve his problems. It's a habit, a routine. Looks still good. Doesn't.. overcoming the problem is a good breakthrough? Rayya can be as successful as she is now, also because of her ability to overcome problems.

In fact, his cleverness overcame the problem..causing new problems! He thought that if he did the best he could, he would make his grandfather happy. Its true. Abraham was proud of Rayya. The woman wanted to silence her enemies who insulted her. This is also true because one by one the Busro family recognizes his ability. But. Rayya wants a third reward. He wanted to get praise from Daus Busro.

Maybe greedy Rayya wants all three at once. However.. in the concept of happy ever after Rayya version, it is the most important. Make Daus proud. Unfortunately.. turned out a dozen years ago.Rayya not managed to make Daus proud and love him, he instead made her ex-husband!

Rayya almost shouted! He found the core of the problem! He understands his misconceptions. He could no longer think of a gift of happiness, making Daus Busro proud. You can't want that loser guy anymore!

The woman squeezed out the sticky notes she was holding. Why hasn't he been figuring out this understanding for so long? Maybe because yesterday, he still thinks that his love life with the man can be saved. Hence, he was not trying to save himself. She still wants to be saved together with her ex-husband. Holy hooch!

Good Lord!

It took him a few months, about a year to figure out how to save himself. That her marriage has been completely destroyed by Daus and. The only way to save her remaining happy, Rayya needs to make peace, accept the reality. He can't want that guy anymore.

Rayya needs to find, renew the reward for herself. Because the old gift habit seems to be unusable, it requires new concepts and new feelings. He can still be happy when he makes Ibrahim Busro proud. Think of it as a return.

Silencing his enemies was happiness, but it was too ordinary. Rayya used to beat them. Looks like he needs an update.

Rayya is looking for another winning trophy, which makes him feel worthy to win the game, the resistance to defend. He thinks hard. Finding another man is not the right thing. Again, Ibrahim Busro did not necessarily accept the man he brought, it was if Rayya.

"God... punished me.” Rayya blinked as she remembered her quarrel with Daus. Suddenly the words came back through his head.

"I just.. useless man.” Again, the look on her ex-husband's face flashed, swirling in her mind.

Rayya stared at his reflection, He could not ask if he was prettier than Daus' new wife? Like Snow white's stepmother asking the magic mirror. Rayya could not get one answer, although he asked many times to the reflection of the face in front of him. Who better to marry David?

"I.. can marry another woman, anyone but.. not you, Rayya.”.

The woman blinked. He found his new trophy! He found, at least, a new reward, the reason why he had to survive. She no longer wanted the happiness of her ex-husband. Instead, Rayya wanted to show... how could he think that.... Rayya... could be replaced by another woman?

Rayya is determined, she will show her ex-husband, to all who have considered him a loser, that Rayya cannot even be replaced by any woman, anyone, anyone she can meet! It is time to turn the table. Getting the man to his knees like yesterday was a new gift in Rayya's future.