Ustadz Nikah Yuk
Still about Referral

A moment Aisyah recalled about the study she heard at night. Where the study talks about the reference.

"Afwan ukh's? Why silence again? No one was talking." said Ratna who suddenly stood up and sat back down.

"Toyyibs. What if a husband asks to refer to one talaq or two talaq, and the period of his id is over? Then the answer, can be referenced but with aqad and a new dowry. Whereas if it's three talak, when the husband asks for a referral. Then the reference can, on condition. His wife must first marry another man, and on the basis of liking. Not by coercion, or reason for wanting to return to her first husband."

"Priest. Syukron ukhty."

"Wa iyyaki's. Is there another one?"

"Afwan, ana ukhty wants to ask." Ratna stood up, while Adrian wrote a question from the Santriyah and would discuss the answer from Aisyah.

"Naam ukhty tafadhol."

"Ukhty now likes many couples, whose wives go home to his parents. Yes, about a few months, or even years. The following year, she wanted to go back to her husband. How's it? Can I refer to it?"

Aisyah laughed at the horse, everyone was confused. Including Adrian who knitted his eyebrows together.

"Anty why?" ratna asked who was confused as well

"No, funny question. Why would his wife go home? Then why should I refer? Is her husband trying to turn her on?"

Everyone remembered Ratna's question, which did not say the word talaq in question.

"Oh yes." Batin Ratna's.

"His husband did not run him over, but the wife went home because of a problem. Most people are like that. They will go back to her husband's house."

"As long as her husband does not say talaq, their relationship remains husband and wife. So, if you want to go home her husband is okay to go home, do not need to be involved with the reference. Because of the word reference, it only exists when talaq is spoken. Not because the wife went home to her parents."

"How can you let the word talak go unspoken? Is divorce hated by God?"

"When we get married, we have to be committed. Do not let the word talak be spoken. If you can wrap it, keep it tied, then throw it into the sea. So, it will never be open" said Aisyah, as everyone laughed. Adrian himself is just a mangosteen.

"That's it, Syukron."

"Naam Afwan ukh."

"Ustadz is it?" Lirih Aisyah, glance at Adrian .

"Anna's question, Anty can answer like it's the source of where?" Staring Aisyah.

"Of course not the argument ana ustadz, ana last night studied while listening to the study of sermons, marriage, and talaq. Hence ana overslept, perhaps others nyangkanya ana oversleeping because of too focused studying biology. Ana learned qurdis too."

"Anty refers to which ustadz?"

"much. Overnight ana review ustadz Syafiq Riza, ustadz."

"Priest. The answer from ukhty Aisyah can be understood?"

"Can ustadz, fahimtu." said all santriyah.

"So we don't have to talk about it anymore."

"Afwan ustadz, not one question. Earlier Aisyah to the end of ustadz." asked one of the santriyah, who sat in the back seat.

"Naam tafadhol."

"Ustadz so gini, many couples who hope in divorce. Then they want to come back. However, because his wife had already returned home and his parents forbade his son to accept the referral, her husband's request how ustadz?"

"Priest. Parents should not interfere in their children's family matters. Including the reference thing. Wearing Allah to lower the verse about the reference? The answer is because God does not want divorce. The couple married and decided to divorce. They were given time to reflect, when was that? It was iddah time. So, the iddah period is not the time to wait for them to get divorced. But indeed at that time God gave the opportunity to meditate on each other, introspect each other, whether the way for them to separate is really good.

And when they decide to refer to it, then the parents and the people around them must support it. Because a referral is a good thing. And they do not become divorced, whose divorce is hated by God.

Then the question was, what if the old man forbid it? Why do parents forbid it? There must be a reason. However, if her husband is a great sinner, a master of the faith, never prays, drink khamer. It is only natural that parents forbid it. But on the contrary, if her husband sholeh. Never let an old man forbid him to refer. Even the role of intervening parents, should be in a way to reconcile them. Allahu a'lam."

"Naam ustadz, ana understands now. Jazakallahu khair - ustadz."

"Priest. Iyyaki. Yes, the reference problem is over! So next week only replay, taaruf chapter, sermon, marriage and talaq. Understood?"

"Fahimtu ustadz."

"Priest. Time off. Assalamualaikum." Adrian goes out.

"Waalaikumsalam wa rahmatullah."

"Ouch, the diary ukhty Ais book was brought. I hope I forgot it." Inner Amina, staring at Adrian's departure.