Ash White Romance
Four Monthly Gratitude

After hearing Daffa's account of his four-monthly thanksgiving plan as well as some of the successes he has achieved over the past year, Wirawan asked, "When do you think you want to have that event?"

"Two weeks away, Sunday, when Rima's womb turned four months old, Bi," replied Daffa.

"That means we have to prepare from now on" Linda said. Daffa.

Then he turned to his younger sister, Ira, who was still engrossed in his snacks.

"Ra, you're ready, right? Tell your friends, yes," Daffa reminded.

"Yes, take it easy, tomorrow we are obrolin, " said Ira.

Tomorrow, during a break Ira takes her three best friends, Rianti, Wulan, and Sania to the cafeteria. While eating the food ordered, Ira began to express the plan of the thanksgiving event.

"Friends, soon enough the age of Kak Rima's womb will enter four months, the plan will be held a thanksgiving event. A Daffa asked for our help again to be an EO at the event. You can, right?" Ira said while asking their ability.

"When's the show, Ra?" ask Rianti.

"Two weeks away, Sunday, really entering the age of four months Kak Rima content. All the other thanks, too, anyway. Celebrating the graduation of A Daffa, his business that was pioneered two years ago began to be successful, the project that is being carried out today is also fairly successful. The story, wanting to share the happiness alone, by inviting orphans near where we live, "said Ira explained the intention behind the plan.

"Eh, Sunday, the show, huh? But do we have a morning study, how, huh?" sania reminded them of their routine schedule.

"Later I'll ask to be replaced the other day to Sister Lisa. Or go on Saturday, hopefully he can. Let me call Lisa's sister, "Ira replied.

"Okay, all right," said Sania.

"Keep what do we need to help?" wulan asked while propping up her chin with one hand.

"I asked for help, almost the same. For the Rianti catering, Sania decorating, and Wulan photography, if I will prepare clothes, "Ira replied.

"Okay, ready!" answer all three.

Next they talk about other technical things, such as the concept of events, and others, considering their time is not much.

In the midst of the conversation, Ira also conveyed his pent-up desire since long ago about doing business in the world of Wedding Organizer or Event Organizer. Especially since meeting and getting to know his three best friends, and seeing the potential of those who are expected to support and cooperate with each other, the desire is getting stronger. It can be seen at the wedding of his eldest brother a few months ago, which was considered a success. Especially after yesterday Daffa promised to help promote to his friends or acquaintances if they will hold various activities. While hoping, from there can be a stepping stone for their efforts in the future. Of course, with a note does not interfere with their study time.

It turns out that his three best friends have the same desire. Their cohesiveness will also be more intertwined and tested.

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Today, according to the plans of the four-monthly ceremony for young couples, Daffa Wirawan Adiguna and Rima Susanti are taking place. Wirawan family home is now turned into a beautiful with a sprinkling of decorations in the form of various flowers that so brighten the eyes of anyone who looks. Although simple, yet beautiful.

On the outside and side terrace also provided tents for invited guests. Made separately. The front terrace is for male guests, while the side terrace is for female guests. Complete with buffet table provided to store a variety of dishes.

After the recitation of the Holy Quran recited by Daffa's friend and co-worker, Abrar. His voice was so melodious in the ears of the guests, making everything carried away in the atmosphere of martyrdom on that sunny morning, as if nature also felt the happiness that was being felt especially for Daffa and Rima.

Subsequently filled by the tausyiah delivered by Hisham, the,

"Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wa barakatuh, Bismilbornrahmanirrahim, Innalhamdalillahi nahmaduhu wanasta'inu wanastaghfiruhu wana'udzubillahi min syuruuri anfusinaa wamin sayyiaati a'maalina. Man yahdillah falaa mudhillalahu wamin yudhillhu falaa haadiyalahu. Asyhadu anna muhammdan abduhuu warosuluh.

"Thank God, on this clear morning we can gather in this glorious place. Shalawat and greetings may we always devote to our beloved His Majesty, Prophet Muhammad, his family, his companions, and his faithful followers in the way of Allah."

"First of all, I would like to thank the family of Mr. Daffa and Ms. Rima who invited me to fill out the Tausyiah at his wife's four-monthly pregnancy. Not to forget anyway, I congratulate her pregnancy, hopefully everything is facilitated and launched until the delivery process later. Aamiin Ya Rabbal 'alamin."

"Al-Qur’an has stated in detail the process of human creation has two different stages, namely:

The first is called the primordial stage. The first man, Adam a.s. was created from al-tin (soil), al-turob (dust land), min shal (clay land), and, min hamain masnun (land of black mud rotten) formed by Allah with as much beauty as possible, then Allah blew the soul from Him into the Self (man) (Q.S, Al An’aam (6):2, Al An, Al Hijr (15):26,28,29, Al Mu’minuun (23):12, Al Ruum (30):20, Ar Rahman (55):4).

Second, it is called the biological stage. The next creation of man is through a biological process that can be understood scientifically. In this process, humans are created from the essence of the soil that is used as semen (nuthfah) stored in a solid place (womb). Then the nuthfah was made into frozen blood (‘alaqah) that hung in the womb. The frozen blood then made Him a lump of meat (mudghah) and then wrapped with bones and to him blown spirit (Q.S, Al Mu’minuun (23):12-14). The hadith narrated by Bukhari and Muslim states that the spirit is breathed by Allah swt. into the fetus after he experienced the development of 40 days of nuthfah, 40 days of ‘alaqah and 40 days of mudghah."

"That is the process of creation of man, praise be to Allah Who Created man in the best possible form compared to other beings. The only advantage that no other creature has is reason. With this sense, man can distinguish between right and wrong. With it also, we can know the Lord, we can understand how to walk this life, armed with instructions in the form of the Qur'an and Sunnah, delivered through the mouth of the Prophet Muhammad. Like a computer, the mind is like a CPU, where we think, where we gather various information that we receive during our lives, then the information data we process in the brain, until from there it forms a mindset and attitude pattern in accordance with the data we have received during our lives. If we are Muslims, of course our mindset and attitude pattern must be in accordance with the direction and view of Islam."

"Therefore, it is very important for prospective parents, and parents in general to instill an Islamic mindset and attitude from an early age, until later it can form a distinctive character as a Muslim or muslimah who shalih and shalihah. It can even start from the moment it is still in the womb. Such as reciting the holy verse of the Quran, reciting zikr, praying a lot, saying the phrase thayyibah. Because the first organ that functions while still in the womb is the ear."

"Having told us that Hajib bin Al Walid had told us that Muhammad bin Harb of Az Zubaidi of Az Zuhri had informed me that Sa'id bin Al Musayyab of Abu Hurayrah, he said; "The apostle of Allah Shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam had said: 'A baby is not born (to this world) unless it is in holiness (fitrah). Then it is the two masters who will make him a Jew, a Christian, or a Magi."

"Then, anything, this is what we have to instill in children early on. Let us reflect on Lukman's advice to his son which is enshrined in the Qur'an. Luqman's advice to his son, among others, is not to associate God with others. Allah will recompense all the deeds done by man, call upon man to do good and forsake all that God forbid."

"All that as a provision for children in living this life. To send and direct the child to always be in the way of God. He returned to Allah in a state of fitrah, becoming a righteous and righteous child. That is our first and foremost duty as parents. So, from now on, get used to good habits for the child."

"This, can be a way we give thanks to the favor of God, one of them with the presence of children in the household. They can be an eye conditioner for both parents, can also be an investment in the world and the hereafter which will lift our degrees before God. However, do not forget, children can also be trials, tests, and even slander for both parents when they are not educated as they should. As I said earlier. May we all always be facilitated in educating our children in this life. Aamiin Yes Rabbal'alamin."

"Okay, all I have said, then behold, O Allah. Given that the time provided has run out, I will end this tausyiah. I hope what I say is understandable. Take my true opinion solely from Allah, and if there is a lack or mispronunciation, forgive me. I am a poor man in the way of Allah. Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wa barakatuh."

I heard the greetings from everyone present. Furthermore, the event continued with the handover of sembako parcels and stationery for the orphans present. The bright and cheerful faces were so radiated from the faces of the children. A moment can be a little forget the narrowness of life, after the death of their father.

Furthermore, guests are welcome to eat a variety of dishes available. Daffa and Rima also look happy and satisfied to see their event went well.