Muara Kasih Single Mother
Jogjakarta Seistim
Mei seems so amazed because her sister-in-law looks so dear and also attentive with her brother. Really, Mei felt that her brother was indeed worthy and deserved all that from Pandu. Despite Ervita's mistakes, Ervita is actually a good woman, an accomplished student, and also always polite and kind with others.
"You're very lucky, Ma'am .. separated from the lion, you're not going into the crocodile cage. Instead of entering the valley of flowering. I can feel that Mas Pandu is really kind and caring to you," said Mei again.
"Yes hope Mas Pandu will never change for me," Ervita replied with a glance at her husband who took various foods in the angkringan for her.
“Mbak Definitely...it looks really good that Mas Pandu will never change. I'm very happy. Apart from the mistakes first, but God replaces everything with even more beautiful. So people say, what is it for happiness, people must suffer first. Hopefully lasting the same Mas Pandu,” said Mei at length.
Ervita also nodded her head, “Iya, thanks well .. You are also the same Tanto, who get along well. Fill each other. May lasting continue,” reply Ervita.
“Amin Mbak,” replied May who also guaranteed hope and prayers from her brother.
Until finally, Pandu and Tanto come with two plates each containing Cat Rice and various fried foods and skewer Satay. They joined the wives and invited them to eat first.
"Eat first Nda," said Pandu by taking a disc of wood and put two packs of Cat Rice on top, then hand it to Ervita.
"Thank you .. You eat first" replied Ervita.
"Yes, I'll be easy .. Come on May ... Om Tanto, do not bother eating. If you take less, just take it again," reply Pandu.
Tanto also seemed to nod his head, "Iya Mas .. This alone has been a lot," he replied.
"If you want anything else, just say it. It's okay." Pandu still says if his sisters want the others it doesn't matter. With her sister to Jogja, she can buy food for Mei and Tanto.
"Mas Pandu .. This was already Sampeyan (the Javanese language Krama madya for your pronouns, for the elderly and respected) buy a lot, Mas," replied Tanto.
"Nothing, will you go to Jogja also not every day," replied Pandu.
Mei seemed to nod her head later, "Because not every day to Jogja, so it feels like Jogja is special," he replied.
Everyone there laughed. Actually, the city of Jogjakarta itself has the tagline of Jogja Istimewa which is officially a citizen branding. A city with Javanese culture that is still maintained, a friendly and polite community to others, natural tourism and culture that is maintained and preserved, advanced and developing education is indeed a Special Jogja.
"Well, kayak yourself, Nda .. seistim Jogjakarta," replied Pandu.
Ervita seemed to blush in shame listening to the conversation from her husband, while Mei and Tanto laughed. Apparently if with a close person, her brother's husband is the type of husband bucin. Though if you do not know, Pandu is calm and mature.
"What the hell Mas ... shy yow," replied Ervita by fertilizing her husband's legs.
The man who was asked could only nod his head slowly, "By Dinda, I was the maximum. Nothing, To .. bucin same wife herself. Just the placement must be right, there is a serious time, there is a time for bucin. It's okay," reply Drive later.
"I thought Mas Pandu was quiet and quiet" replied Tanto again.
"If it's Ervita, I can't be fooled. He wants to keep talking. Trust me, sediem-diemnya husband because he is the same wife, anything can be a matter of conversation together. Likewise, the husband if it is the same child, will be more cherry. The children's song that we used to think of, ah, is past its time. Once you have a child, the man will sing a children's song" replied Pandu who shared his own experience.
"The Guide is so tow too?" ask Mei later.
"Yes, if you are at home you want to chat so .. while ngeteh or pillow talk with Dinda. Then if it's the same Indi yes horrified the story, playing dolls, and singing her favorite songs. Yeah, it should be like that. Men will not only be men, but when already married his role will be a husband, when already have children his role will be a father. It's balanced," replied Pandu.
Tanto then nodded his head slowly, "True Mas .. I yes although not perfect, sometimes until the house is tired because of a long day of work, still take the time to chat yes the term quality time with Mei," his reply.
"Yes the Mas . at least with the couple was not only close physically, but also close by heart. Although the chatter is just everyday things," said Mei there.
Ervita who had listened since then also spoke, "At least it will build good communication with your partner. With him that we will spend all the time of age right, maybe feel there is a point where feel angry, careless, or happy. It could also be that communication becomes stuck, but must try to build communication. If you already have the child, the communication must also be three-way. Wife-to-husband communication, husband-to-wife communication, and third-parent-to-child communication. We tried to do it" Ervita explained later.
"Pinter Mbak .. I was a kangen at home often chat with Ervi at home. Can be a lot of knowledge and a lot of shared, "reply Mei who suddenly missed chatting times at home.
"So often play to Jogja, so you can chat together," replied Ervita.
"Yes, if you can Mbak .. This is also a craving to play to Jogja, and now has been delivered to eat at Angkringan in Malioboro. It's so bad Ma'am," replied May.
"Healthy Mom and the baby. Play to Jogja again sometime. Many places can be visited later," replied Ervita.
"Ready Mbak .. next time play to Jogja. Very special," replied Tanto.
Pandu nodded his head and then glanced at Ervita sitting beside him, "Jogja is special, Nda."
Ervita was embarrassed to hear the rebuke from her husband. Even with Mei and Tanto who actually laughed at the behavior of his sister-in-law who was pregnant. To the shame of it.
"Reply Ma'am," replied May.
Ervita shook her head, then glanced at her husband. "Mas, if fried rice plus eggs the name is special. If you're at heart, you don't need anything extra, you're special."
Pandu laughed there, his face reddened. Didn't think that his wife could say a change like that. But that is the communication in marriage. Sometimes just a little munchy taste can make the heart become so flowery.